Emotional Inteligence, Feedback, Leadership, learning, personal growth, professional development, Self Improvement/ Self Help

Blind Spots: Danger -Watch Yourself !!

Her feedback certainly explained why- despite my best efforts I was not having the impact I wanted and was not working effectively with those members of the team. The feedback left me feeling confused and frustrated. How could my strengths- self-confidence, outgoing personality and assertiveness show up as a weakness? Her feedback had revealed a blind spot and I knew then that I would need to do some things differently.

Emotional Inteligence, Leadership, personal growth, professional development, Self Improvement/ Self Help, Thought Leadership

Dare to Be YourSELF: Everyone Else Is Taken

However, I have also worked in environments where, I have had a coworker who looks like me say “I don’t like you all (meaning immigrants)” and accuse me of receiving preferential treatment (due to Caribbean heritage) as compared to other black women. I have even had another woman who does not look like me say “your energy is shutting me down”.

Decision Making, Developing Others, Developing Self, Emotional Inteligence, Life Issues, Managing Self, Motivation and Failure, Navigating Relationships, Personal & Professional Development

Success & Misperceptions of Success

They say that, 'beauty is in the eyes of the beholder'. I say, so is success. Recently, I had conversations with two friends - one male and, the other female, in which success, perceptions of success, or the lack thereof were common themes. In these interactions, both friends shared their views about their own successes… Continue reading Success & Misperceptions of Success

Developing Others, Developing Self, Emotional Inteligence, Engagement, Feedback, Leadership, Management, Managing Self, Personal & Professional Development

Managing Emotions at Work

The tears well up in Ashley’s eyes, she tries desperately to stop them, hide them, but, they stream unchecked down her face. John pushes back his chair from the table, and storms from the meeting room. The usually bubbly and energetic Ann, dejectedly looks down, there is no light in her eyes, no welcoming smile.… Continue reading Managing Emotions at Work

Brand Management, Branding, Communication, Developing Self, Emotional Inteligence, Personal & Professional Development

Made in Jamaica……..More on Branding

Made in Jamaica......   In my last post about personal branding- "It's All About the Brand", I looked at why our brand matters and how it is reflected in everything we do. This post sparked interesting conversation pieces and raised some relevant questions that I would like to address and expand on in this post. Among… Continue reading Made in Jamaica……..More on Branding

Career, Communication, Developing Others, Developing Self, Emotional Inteligence, Engagement, Leadership, Management, Managing Change, Managing Other, Managing Self, Personal & Professional Development

Are You Engaged?

I am pretty sure that when you think or hear of the term engagement - the first thing that comes to mind is a proposal for marriage. Yes, the moment the man or woman (not so uncommon these days) pops the question and ask his/her beloved for their hand in marriage. If you thought so, you would be quite right but that's not… Continue reading Are You Engaged?

Career, Communication, Developing Others, Emotional Inteligence, Personal & Professional Development

The Things I Didnt Know(That I Didnt Know)

Bright , Smart , Educated , Articulate, Confident  and Intelligent (IQ). Have any of these attributes been used to describe you? I'm pretty sure they have. And whether  you might have developed any of these traits throughout  all your years of schooling  or your gene pool, these should make you pretty awesome or augur well for your success. After all,… Continue reading The Things I Didnt Know(That I Didnt Know)